“Guys always say great things about their girlfriends until they are broken up”
I
remember hearing those very words on an episode of ‘Boy Meets World’
before, and as I grew up, I think I realized the how truthful those
words seemed to be. It’s as if when two people break up, an monster of
hatred is released where we finally have this ability to find every flaw
and horrendous word to describe someone that that once loved endlessly.
And if the truth really did come out once a relationship finally ceases
to end, you have to wonder why so many people were together in the
first place. Maybe you try to be angry at these people who once were
your everything to get over them quicker. Or maybe you stop being so
blinded by love to realize things you have never noticed before. But
it’s sad isn’t it, that someone that we once only had great things to
say about can turn into the enemy in a quick second.
It’s always
going to be difficult saying goodbye to someone who even for a second
thought forever was a possibility with. I think that it’s important to
remember you fell in love with someone for a reason. And just because it
end doesn’t mean you have to stop loving them. Sometimes it just
doesn’t work out, and that’s the way it is. And for however short of
time it was, they made you believe in something amazing. They made you
believe in happiness, love, and allowing yourself to trust another
person enough to be vulnerable enough in a place to get hurt. And in the
end if it doesn’t work out, shouldn’t all we want is to see a smile of
pure happiness on the other persons face? The smile that you always
wished you were able to give them but wasn’t ever the one who would be
able to do it? Because doesn’t just tell you after a break up, there is
still someone out there that might be able to put that exact smile on
your face?
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