CHANGES AND CHALLENGES

In life, we meet people. Others will change your life while you change some other people. It’s either in a negative way or the positive way, it’s still called CHANGE.            Change is something that presses us out of our comfort zone. It is destiny-filtered, heart grown, faith built, it is inequitable; not a respecter of persons we change for the better or for the worst, depending on where you view it. It has an adjustment period which varies on the individual, has a ripping effect on those who won’t let go. Flex is the key. Even a roller coaster ride can be fun if you know when to lean and create new balance within the change. It is needed when all the props and practices of the past no longer work. It is never comforted by the statement ‘just hang in there’ but with the statement ‘you can make it’. We don’t grow in retreat, but through endurance. You can never fix it by crying, worrying, or mental tread milling. It is won by victors not victims; and that choice is ours, is awkward -- at first. It has muscle that develops to abundantly enjoy the dynamics of the life set before us. A change call own strength beyond anyone of us and pushes you to do your personal best. Change draws out those poised for a new way, never has casualties of those defeated. Change will cause us to churn or to learn. The speed of time can be controlled by it. Time is so slow for the reluctant, and yet it is a whirlwind for those who embrace it. Change is more fun to do than to be done to. Change seeks a better place at the end and is complete when you realize you are different. Change is measured by its impact on all who are connected to it. Is charged when you are dissatisfied with where you are. It doesn’t look for a resting-place; just the next launching point and it’s only a waste to those who don’t learn from it. Change happens in the heart before it is proclaimed by our works it can chap those moving slower than the change itself. CHANGE IS HERE TO STAY.  Different challenges comes in life which we have to face and it all comes in their separate forms its either you benefits or the challenge benefits from you depending on how you handle the challenge. When you meet people, you’ll fine out that some come to stay while others just come and they never exist after then, and you keep thinking, HAVE I DONE SOMETHING WRONG TO THIS PERSON, OR IS THERE ANYTHING I DID NOT JUST DO RIGHT? But the truth of the matter is, they were never joint to you and this does not mean they don’t like you or they have seen wrong in you, it’s just that your destiny and theirs were never joined together that’s why some come and they go. There are times when you get angry at other people just because you he/she did something that you find rather annoying. You don’t understand each other, the funny aspect of the story is that there is a probability (which you are not looking at, at that particular point) that the person you are even angry with does not even know what is going on with in your head and you keep on disturbing your self.  And when things starts to become clear for you, and you have a close look about what is making you angry, you find out you are angry over nothing at all because life is all about moving on, forgetting the past and try to leave with what you got to offer in the future and what life has to offer you.                  There are people who come to your life and you wish they stay forever, and before you know it, they are out of your life. And you start hating them for what they did, but one thing you did not consider about that persons decision is why did he/she have to make such decision without thinking of you? But you know the truth of the matter is this days, everybody tries his possible best to do what pleases him. You should never try to think of why the person left the way he did, rather focus on how to move on with your life because as far as I am concern the other person did the same for him self.                    What I am trying to say hear is that, in life you need to be ready to take anything that comes, because when you don’t see it coming, when it does comes, you will find it difficult to make the right decision and all the deed has been done you fall back full of regrets asking your self how you let it happen that way. And instead of trying to learn from your mistakes you still fall back and do the same thing all over again.