LOVE, RELATIONSHIP AND LIFE IN GENERAL: Dating Rules on How to Meet Someone

Wednesday, 16 March 2011

Dating Rules on How to Meet Someone

Struggling to meet someone new? Following these simple yet insightful dating rules might be just be exactly what you need.

Love Yourself First

Have you ever noticed that happy people get more attention? And if you are happy with yourself, it shows. So in order to attract more people into your life for dating purposes, focus on the things that make you happy. Try writing a large piece of paper full of ideas that you can use in a pinch, such as taking a hot bath, going for a bike ride or filling your home with plants. Then, pick three items from this list every day with conscious effort, knowing that the time you take tending to increasing your own personal joy will increase the pull others feel to learn more about who you are.

Review Your Relationship Expectations

If you shake your head within seconds of meeting someone, rank them against a checklist in your head, or have stringent guidelines about who you will and won't meet, it is time to revamp your relationship expectations. When trying to meet someone new, it is imperative that you let go of your preconceived notions about who the perfect partner is.

Cut Ties To Your Ex

Although this dating rule may be contentious for some readers, it is still an important step in the dating process. Just like a spring cleaning clears your space of clutter and cobwebs, removing an ex still present in your life after a breakup can free you to meet someone new. Of course there are circumstances where this may not be possible - such as if you have children together or work in the same office. But whenever possible, you need to remove your ex from your personal life, even if it is only temporary.

Let Go of Dating Myths

Dating is exhausting and not worth my time. I'll never meet The One. All the good ones are taken.
These three statements are myths about dating that seriously require thought if they are going through your head. Dating isn't about negative thoughts; its about meeting as many interesting people as you can while having faith that you'll meet someone special.
Following this dating rule means you need to stop focusing on the person you are trying to meet, and focus on the spotlight instead on yourself.

Face Your Dating Fears

Feeling anxious or upset about the prospects of meeting someone new usually translates into fear. If the thoughts of never meeting someone special, being upset that your last partner refused to commit, or convincing yourself you aren't worth dating are taking over your thought processes, it is time to face your dating fears. By not following this dating rule and ignoring the issues, your inability to risk losing your heart will stop you from meeting someone special.

Learn How To Flirt

Too attract new people; you'll need to show them you are interested - which means learning how to flirt. Virtually every single first encounter that leads to more starts with a smile, so this dating rule suggests smiling at everyone you encounter, without qualification. As well, understanding body language is a crucial part of meeting someone new and cannot be overlooked.

Accept All Dates

If you want to follow the rules of dating to meet someone new, its time to stop making snap decisions about the people who ask you out for a date. If someone asks you for coffee, it is your responsibility to accept it, barring any issues with safety of course. A date is just a date - not a marriage proposal. It'll only take an hour or two, and by accepting all dates you'll move closer to meeting someone special while perfecting your notions of what kind of person you'd like to have in your life. Felicia Lagok

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FELICIA LAGOK2 September 2011 at 02:29
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Others are a reflection of what you are

If you look in the mirror and you don’t like what you see, do you blame the mirror or do you think you ought to do something to yourself to make yourself look better? Of course, you don’t blame the mirror. The mirror merely reflects your own self. You smile and the person in the mirror smiles back at you. You cry and the other person in the mirror cries too. Other people are like your mirror. They send back to you what you send to them. Your facial expressions are likely to attract similar facial appearances from other people. When you smile, there’s a strong probability that other people will smile back. If you present a hostile look, others respond with hostility. If you display enthusiasm, liking or interest in someone, they usually show similar feelings for you. If you are an optimistic person, chances are you look forward to a social gathering such as a birthday party, which you have been invited, with the positive attitude that you are going to enjoy yourself meeting new and interesting people. Sure enough, optimistic expectations are self-fulfilling and your friendliness and sociability draw other people towards you at the party. Their friendliness and genuine willingness to engage readily with you reflect your very nature. If, on the other hand, you are a naturally shy person, you are very likely to be shy with people you don’t know. You feel nervous and uncomfortable with other people. At the party, you seem rather aloof to other people when in fact you are just shy. When others find you aloof and unfriendly, they respond in similar manner. You probably leave the party thinking the people there are not friendly when all you have to do is being open and interested in others. When problems occur in a relationship, usually both sides are responsible. However, each party sees only the fault of the other person, thus absolving his or her own self of any responsibility, and lays the blame on the other. Likewise, a person who thinks other people are difficult invariably has no self-awareness that he or she is in fact a difficult, if not the most difficult, person. They blame others and complain about others’ behaviour. Do not do to others what you do not want them do to you, so stop blaming the mirror which unfortunately to many people is something extremely hard to do.

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